- ISBN13: 9780060012748
- Condition: NEW
- Notes: Brand New from Publisher. No Remainder Mark.
Product Description
For a new century and a new generation of readers comes a fully revised and expanded edition of a classic guide to gay sex, love, and life. Invaluable as a sex guide, a resource on building self-esteem, and a trusted aid… More >>


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Loved it better than Cats and more stimulating than Pottery Barn!!!
Rating: 5 / 5
A manual on how to fist and rim. Just what everyone needs!
In all seriousness, who needs a book instruction them on how to fondle or whiz on each other? That’s what MTV videos are for.
Rating: 1 / 5
I sat down and flipped through this book after I bought it. While I didn’t need or use all the information in this book, it has definately proved usefull.
Rating: 3 / 5
Please folks, if you read this book, consider it a light once-over survey and not an authoritative reference on all of the practices it attempts to cover. There are passages in here that would not be at all helpful for someone who is just exploring their Gay sexuality. There are good parts, but there are questionable parts as well. If there is a specific topic that you want to know more about please, don’t let this be your only source.
Rating: 2 / 5
The weakest link in this book is that sexual addiction and compulsivity is not a valid problem or diagnosis. The authors suggest that sexual addiction pathologizes sexual behaviors.
Sexual addiction is not about sex. It is the use of sex for re-enacting trauma and abuse. It is putting one’s self at risk for legal consequences, health problems, STD’s and relationship problems. It is the loss of control over one’s true sexuality.
I recommend that if you purchase this book you buy Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men as that author understands the true definition of what sexual addiction is.
Rating: 3 / 5