When a woman loses her interest in sex, there are three possible reasons behind it- her hormones are drying her out, her stress are draining her out, or you are making her lose interest. Hormones come with age and other medications, stress comes with problems, while you, well, your excitement and anticipation, or cluelessness might influence your performance in bed. If your girlfriend or wife is young and not under medication, and can cope with stress perfectly, then you can honestly concluded you are doing something in bed that makes your woman do the dishes rather than sleep with you.
Here are the mistakes men in bed.
- Skips the foreplay. You have to remember that foreplay makes the love making special and intimate. Do the foreplay right and your girl will be begging more of you, skip it and you’ll be the one begging for it.
- Forgets about kissing. Not kissing her lips and going directly to her private parts can make your girl feel like you are paying her by the hour. Treat your woman with intimacy and passion by lingering on passionately kissing her lips.
- Disregards shaving. When you see her shaking her head from side to side after not shaving your face for days, it’s not pleasure, it’s evasion. Raking your porcupine face on your woman’s neck and thigh can be very uncomfortable and sometimes painful. So do your woman a favor and clean-shave your face.
- Squeezing her breast too hard. Some women love their breast to be gently squeezed, but most of them want it to be smoothly and slowly caressed, but none of them wants their breast to be manhandled! So don’t squeeze too hard.
- Not treating the nipples right. I understand how die-hard men are on women’s breasts, but I don’t get it when they bite it the way a puppy would bite and shake a pillow! Men, be a good dog – lick and don’t bite. Another thing I don’t get about men is twiddling the nipple between their finger and thumb like trying to find a perfect signal on the radio. Listen – up, guys, the nipples are a very sensitive area, you are not going to hear good music by doing that. Treat the breasts right by focusing on the whole area, caress it, and fondle it with tenderness and love.
- Not touching other parts of her body. A man who only pays attention to the breast and the va-jay-jay gets an “F” in the sex department. There are other erogenous zones in the woman’s anatomy- the neck, the ears, the navel, the back, the legs, the toes and many more. Give them their due attention.
- Coming too soon. Not finishing the job will surely make your woman uninterested and disappointed. Keep on doing this in a regular basis and your woman is not only going to lose her interest in sex, she’ll totally lose her interest in you.
- Not coming too soon. When your woman decides to make love to you, she looks forward to fulfillment and satisfaction, not soreness and body aches.
- Saying thank you. Making love is an act of mutual understanding of showing and expressing affection, don’t insult her by saying thank you as if she has given you a free lunch.
