Some men have absolutely no idea on how to go down on their women. They go down their with their wet tongue and just start licking willy nilly. Do you remember what happened to George on Seinfeld when he did that? Yep, he got the now famous tap on the head and told he was done. Guys, if you really want to satisfy your women, you might want to get some tips on how to go down on your woman in a way that will truly make her quiver – not consider tapping you on the head and telling you to stop.
This is a major topic of conversation among women. Yes, we do talk about it and it seems most women have more complaints than stories of being satisfied in this department.
First of all, most women do not like to have to ask you to go down on her. Most women won’t ask but really wish you would all on your own. Many women resent the fact that their significant other doesn’t volunteer to go down on them. Sometimes, this resentment gets played on in various ways like being “too tired” to have sex or give a blowjob. Rather than tell you what the problem really is, your woman may just avoid being intimate with you.
Second, contrary to the famous quote on Seinfeld, we would like you to make an attempt at getting good at it. We make a earnest attempt at learning what pleases you and we are no different. When you go down on a woman without any idea of how to do it well, it’s like giving a gift that you put no thought into. It shows and we notice and we don’t appreciate it.
Third, most men go straight for the clit when they go down on their women. WRONG! You know that spot on the rim of the penis that feels oh so good IF you lead into to it and don’t over do it but can actually hurt if you do there too soon and too much? Think of the clit like that. This should not be the first place you go and too much of a good thing usually makes it hurt.
Fourth, besides learning the techniques that work on almost every women, you also need to fine tune it for your particular woman because we all respond differently and we all have slightly different preferences. Now, you need to know that many women will not feel comfortable verbalizing to you in a really specific way what she likes. The best way to figure this out usually is to just carefully watch her reaction as you try slightly different variations of the different techniques.
