Did you know that most women are sexually unsatisfied? It’s true, but if you ask your partner, she will probably deny it. Women are just not as open as men when it comes to talking about sex. At least, most women aren’t.
So, it is up to you men to make sure that your partner is just as satisfied as you are. And when you are able to accomplish this, then you will find that your woman will do everything in her power to make sure that you are just as satisfied.
Today, I want to talk to you about 1 of the different ways that women orgasm, & give you a few tips. Here we go:
Women take longer than you guys do to warm up. It’s just a fact of nature. If you want to satisfy your woman, then you want to make her orgasm the first time during foreplay. If you don’t, then giving her an orgasm during penetration will be more difficult.
There are a few different ways to give a woman an orgasm through fingering, but in this article I am going to talk about one of the easiest & most intense orgasms you can give her while using your fingers.
1) Clitoral Orgasm
This is one of the easiest orgasms to give a woman. And giving her a clitoral orgasm first will set up more intense orgasms during penetration.
Remember what I said above? That we take longer to warm up than you do? It’s very true. And most women hate it when you go straight for the target zone!
You want to start out by teasing your woman. Start by kissing her, gently biting or nibbling on her neck. Gently massage & caress every part of her body, except her vagina. You want to make sure that she is totally turned on & relaxed, normally about 10 to 15 minutes (some women may take longer).
The longer that you take, the better it will be for her.
Once she is warmed up, then you can move in for the kill.
Make sure that your finger is well lubricated, & that she is too. After the foreplay I talked about above, she should be. If not, you may need to use some kind of lube.
Lie down next to her. You want to use both hands. One to spread her open, & the other to massage her clit.
Start out very slowly & lightly, moving your finger up & down. You want to build her up, before you get her off. Also, by starting this way, you will be sure that she is ready.
You want to pay attention to her reactions.
Is she getting wetter? Is she starting to moan?
If so, then you can start stroking her harder & faster, but maintain the up & down motion with your finger until she gets off & has her first orgasm.
Simple, right?
Here are some don’ts that you never want to do:
1) Never break her concentration
2) Never start & stop
3) Never take your finger off her clit
In other words, never distract her for any reason. Remember, you will get your satisfaction later on.
The only reason to break these rules is if she asks you to do something. If she is telling you to do something, then it is because it will increase her pleasure.
In another article, I will talk about getting your partner off & giving her a G-Spot Orgasm. So stay tuned!
