In today’s article I want to talk about 5 Mistakes that you guys make when performing oral sex on your partner. Most women love oral sex, but very few guys know how to do it right. Don’t make these mistakes with your woman.
1) Thinking Your Woman Just Enjoys Oral
Think about this for a minute: Men can enjoy oral without getting off, since men get off once & then have to wait before they can get off again.
Women are multi orgasmic, so what do you think your woman wants from you going down on them? If you guessed an orgasm, then you are right. Even though we can enjoy oral without an orgasm, we would much rather have one!
2) Thinking Penetration Is The Key
Men, for some reason, are penetration oriented. But it is understandable, since penetration is usually their overall goal. Don’t make the mistake of thinking that oral sex is an extension of penetration, nothing could be farther from the truth!
When performing oral sex, you should be concentrated on one thing & one thing only, giving your woman a clitoral orgasm. Your tongue isn’t your penis, don’t try to use it as one.
3) Missing The Spot
As stated above, you want to give your woman a clitoral orgasm during oral sex. Some guys go after oral sex half-assed. They will lick around the lips, her thighs, her stomach, but never concentrate on the right spot – The Clit. If you want her to top that hill, you have to push her over it. Concentrate on the clit!
4) Not Maintaining The Right Rhythm
For those guys who do realize that the clitoris is the way to a woman’s heart, there is still one mistake many of you make – not maintaining the right rhythm.
For many women, they need constant stimulation of the clitoris to reach their peak. With increasing pressure as they get into it more. Many of you men will lick around the clit, but never concentrate there. Don’t neglect the main part.
5) Stopping Too Early
For guys, you want a BJ to last, but not get off from it. Women do want to get off from you performing oral on them. So don’t make the mistake off coming up too early.
Remember, most of us women require a good 10-15 minutes of clitoral stimulation before we can reach orgasm. And then we can come again during penetration.
So don’t be in a hurry & rush things along. You will find your woman more satisfied & willing to please you more in the long run!
