Christian couples are notorious for being busy and getting caught up in a major juggle between work, church, and everyday things that arise. Before we know it, our intimacy is seriously lacking and we need to take some immediate action to get it on track, pronto!
Well, there are some tricks you can use to improve Christian sex. Sometimes we do have to pleasantly “trick” ourselves into bringing intimacy back into our lives. Otherwise we will just carry on with our busy lives and sex will continue to remain on the back burner.
Here are some important tricks to have the best Christian intimacy possible:
1. Take off for a night or weekend. Just do it. Pack two small bags and go to either the nearest or the farthest hotel you can. If you want to stay close in town, then take advantage of hotels in the area. If you want to get out of town then drive to the furthest point that is far enough, yet not too far. Taking off for just a night or two has such huge benefits. You are away from it all and there is no choice but to get intimate and cozy with one another.
2. Leave him or her NOTES (lay the Groundwork). The hardest part of improving Christian sex is actually getting to the bedroom. It’s that in between zone that needs to be figured out.This is where you have to lay the groundwork for great intimacy to occur. Do this by leaving little notes. Start out with just little reminders of how much you love one another. Then get more romantic, more creative, and begin writing more intimate notes. Now, many people will translate this to “texting”. This is not texting. This is leaving actual, physical paper notes.These are far more effective than electronic texts.
3. Research. Researching ways to have better Christian sex will put you in that excited state of mind you need to be in to take the proper initiative and start having great sex. Learn about new and exciting Christian accepted positions. Learn how to please one another to experience ultimate pleasure. Research will lead to becoming excited again about intimacy. And continued research will lead to a more constant and pleasurable sex life.
