You wake up one weekend morning and it’s raining outside, really coming down with thunder in the distance. You roll over and there’s your lady laying there half naked and half in Greek style toga. You lean in and gently kiss her on the cheek. She opens her eyes, smiles, and looks adoringly into your eyes. You know that look. She’s horny, really horny. She’s yours for the taking if you want. But should you?
Yes, you could pounce on her like an animal and let your hormones run amok. She’d respond in kind and you’d both have a nice morning romp. But the conditions of the day portend something even better. You have the potential to have the most amazing sex you’ve ever had – the kind of sex you and your woman could be talking about for decades – that is if you play it right.
For sex of the decade kind of sex, you need to resist your initial urge to pounce and instead let the sexual tension build gradually like the crescendo in a fine piece of music. The end result will be much more explosive for both of you. If you truly want the most amazing sex you’ve ever had, you need to take this opportunity to spend hours on foreplay – and I don’t mean the kind of foreplay men do just before sex to get a woman wet. You need to really take your time here.
You may want to snuggle up close, gingerly stroke her hair, and whisper in her ear how much you adore her. Take your time. Lightly caress her breasts and nipples but don’t touch her vagina. Stare into her eyes and communicate without talking for an hour or more while gently brushing her check with your fingers. Treat her to breakfast and coffee in bed and then pull her into the shower where you scrub her entire body with a luffa sponge. Give her a foot message and offer to paint her toenails. Talk to her while you do it in a soothing masculine voice. Comfort her and tell her how much you appreciate she’s in your life. Tease her with sexual innuendo but don’t say anything hardcore.
After hours of this foreplay, you have now set the stage. Take her into your arms and pull her close enough for her to notice your rock hard erection. Now let your animalistic instincts come out. You’ll have the most amazing sex you’ve ever had because the quality and intensity of sex is so much about what’s in the brain and in the mood that is set before the act.
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