By Guy Russell 
Guy Russell
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In my professional world, I am a technical writer and team leader in the IT industry. In my private world, I have had numerous relationships …
First of all, I would like to say that it is a myth to think that a woman is harder to drive wild than a man. While a man may be a fairly simple creature, All people, whether they are a man or a woman has a desire to be wanted, needed, respected, and appreciated. Some people may have those basic needs weighted differently than others, but it is safe to say that we all have those basic needs. If you touch those needs as she needs them, you will surely drive her wild constantly.
During our relationship, we may find that our attention becomes fixed onto specific needs. That attention may be a result of discussions or observations. Either way, those needs end up being the focus and everything is wonderful for a period of time. What we may miss is that those needs shift in the desired or needed attention level. In other words, what works now may not get the same result later on, or what used to work doesn’t work the same now. Let’s take a deeper look.
Women want to be desired as well as respected. If your focus is always on her beauty, then she will begin to feel unappreciated. Of course she wants to feel beautiful, and desired by you, but too much sugar can make anyone sick. If you want to truly keep her engine running, you will need to open your heart, as well as your eyes to her and get in touch with her feelings. While she may want to feel safe and protected by you, being the tough man all the time can become very boring or even undesirable over time. You definitely don’t want that to ever happen, so mix up the sensitive caring guy with the tough strong protector. Get in tune with her needs as they shift their need for focus. With a little effort and creativity, you will know when to come home and be that perfect gentleman that swept her off her feet, or that lustful hungry animal that leaves her gasping for air. For it is everything above that makes her wild for you! No matter how wonderful your relationship is, it will require dedication and effort on both parts to keep it that way. Besides isn’t she worth it?
Our minds are much like muscles. In order for muscles to truly grow and develop, you have to change up the exercise routine from time to time. If you do the same things over and over, you will not change beyond a certain point, as the muscles will have become accustomed and in a way immune to the exercise. But if you constantly change and shock the muscles, they will grow and grow almost indefinitely. Our minds work much the same way. If you are always the same way to her, then she will subconsciously become immune to what you are doing. Shock her mind and keep it growing by changing what you do and how you act. Focus on her various needs at different times. Be her Tarzan to her Jane so she feels protected and secure, then the next day be kind attentive gentleman she fell in love with. Keep her guessing, and her heart will pound every day wondering what will be coming home to her.
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