My friends laugh at me when I confided to them about my early ejaculation problem. Premature ejaculation makes me feel less of a man and I even avoided having sex with women because of this condition. But today, I am totally different guy because premature ejaculation is something of a past.
The reason why I told you this is not to boast about my success of stopping premature ejaculation. I just want to let you know that premature ejaculation is a very common problem among men: if I am able to stop it, you CAN too.
To stop premature ejaculation, it all starts with having self-confidence and a strong belief that you can do it. If you are always thinking about early ejaculation, then it is no wonder why you are suffering from premature ejaculation.
Before I share with you the tips to last longer in bed, I think we need to set the expectation right. How long is long enough? If you are comparing yourself with adult movie actors and want to last an hour, I want you to stop now. Adult movies give men the misconception that sex should last for an hour or more. But do you know that most women can’t reach orgasm if the intercourse lasts more than 30 minutes? You don’t need to last an hour to please your lady. In fact, lasting 10 minutes will do the magic.
Next, how do you last longer to satisfy your lady in bed? Firstly, you might want to develop the right mindset about great sex. Long duration of sex doesn’t equals to great sex. Don’t focus on the duration of the intercourse. Instead, focus on the quality. By having such as mindset, it does a whole lot of good to your confidence in bed.
Your penis is not the only thing that you can use to please your woman sexually – you have your fingers and tongue. Most women achieve mind-blowing orgasm from cunnilingus (oral sex for women) and why don’t you make use of this fact and give your lady a good time in bed? You don’t have 100% control with your penis but you HAVE 100% control with your tongue and fingers.
So use your fingers and tongue to accelerate her sexual anticipation and lower her threshold for orgasm. Stimulate her hot spots such as clitoris, breasts, neck and spine to heighten her arousal first.
When she is sufficiently aroused before intercourse, she will reach orgasm faster during intercourse. When that happens, you will become more confident and you will naturally last longer.
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