Small things for BIG difference – Subtle hints on HOW TO MAKE LOVE
Making love or more bluntly, sex, comes naturally to all living beings. But like any other art, there are finer points that make the difference between a pro and a novice. This article is not about how to make love to her, rather, its “how to make ultimate love to her”.
ADMIRE HER.
Tell her how much you love her body. Maybe its her nose, or fingers or breasts or nipples, whatever, just do it sincerely. It could be anything, just tell her about it. Men are mostly non graphical by nature, but women imagine things differently. Even if she is not what you fantasize as the playmate of the century, you can always find areas where she scores much better than many other women. If her breasts are smallish while you preferred larger, firmer ones, maybe her nipples are darker, thicker or her skin is smoother or something that few other women have. Tell her about it. And then see how she makes love to you. By admiring her hidden beauty or something that is unique to her, you make her feel wanted. You make her feel as if she has control over you because of her ‘that thing’. This gives her a high. Imagine the reverse. Imagine if the woman tells you, “You have such a thick penis”, or, “Your arms are so strong”. How would you feel? How are you feeling reading these lines here? Isn’t it hot just to imagine her telling you this. Do the same to her.
DO WHAT YOU LOVE TO DO.
Understand one natural phenomenon. We are nothing but bundles of ENERGY. What we do, how we act, how we affect or influence others is nothing but a matter of transmission of energy from one to the other. Making love is no exception. The more positive your energies, the better the results. Unfortunately, you cannot consciously decide to make the energy positive or negative. It flows from your deepest unconscious. In other words, if you really love doing something to her, if it really makes you mad with pleasure, there are very high chances that she will love getting it from you. The simple reason behind this is, that your unconscious self emits such a positive energy that reaches, resonates and stirs her pleasure zone. If you crave to go down on her, rest assured, your tongue will not have to be taught anything. It will do wonders to her. On the contrary, if you hate the smell of her vagina, even if you use best of your techniques with squeezed nose, it will be boring for her and it won’t be long before she pulls you up.
LET YOUR HANDS DO IT
Use your hands all over her body. One of the most amazing observations about behavior of men during sex is, they seem to forget they have hands too. Think about it, how do you make love to her. She is lying down, you are hovering over her. Your body weight is either resting on her body or on your elbows and you are kissing her. Where are your hands? Underneath her? You are thrusting inside her while she is on her fours. Where are your hands? Hanging by your side? What are they doing there? Touch her. Feel her. Caress her. Remember, when your manly hands slide over her naked skin, they are capable of giving her goose pimples. Use your hands everywhere. Tickle the nape of her neck, her earlobes, hold her breasts, gently squeeze her nipples, run your fingers in her armpits, pinch her hips, caress her inner thighs and see her go wild.
I will be glad if you could identify with the above. Will certainly write more if I hear from you.
