By now you have mastered the basic hand techniques for the squirting orgasm; however for many couples his won’t necessarily mean that their partner still has successfully had a squirting orgasm. There may be many reasons for this, but luckily most of these are simple to solve. Soon you will be on your way to giving her a female ejaculation orgasm. This article is designed to troubleshoot your technique and guarantee that you give her a night to remember!
Setting a Relaxed, Sexual Atmosphere
By far the most common problem is that your partner can’t relax enough to orgasm. This may sound strange, but it is very common. Guys can benefit by putting themselves in their partner`s place. There is often a lot of expectation for her to have the orgasm and this can block her from the feeling of abandonment necessary to ejaculate. Similarly the motion of your hands is very different to what she is used to, and then there is the feeling of the orgasm, a feeling so much like urination that many women immediately block their orgasm.
Sounds tough, doesn`t it?
So what can guys do to make it easier for her? Well the relaxation phrase is very important and unfortunately the part that many guys forget. We`re not just talking about a candle and a back rub, we mean that guys need to go all out and set a romantic setting, give her a slow, erotic massage, and give her a ‘regular’ orgasm first. With that level of relaxation and erotic stimulation, she will find it a lot easier to orgasm.
Now Add Some Arm Power
Often for these stronger orgasms just the motions of your hand aren’t enough. Instead you need to add in some arm motions to make her have the squirting orgasm. The arm motion is a pulling motion as if you were pulling something towards yourself. This simple motion will allow you to get more power in your hand motions and make it far more likely that she will orgasm.
Finally Use Her Legs
Many guys (And a surprising number of women too) often don`t realize how important her leg position is. A lot of women favor the legs together position. However this is often a bad thing for the squirting orgasm. While it is possible to give her a squirting orgasm in this position, for couples starting out with squirting orgasms, it is far better to have your hips raised with a pillow and legs open. This not only gives a comfortable position, but also gives you easier access to her G-spot.
Great sex comes from making small differences. This applies regardless of what type of orgasm you give. Once you make these kinds of small changes you will soon find it a lot easier to consistently give her a squirting orgasm.
Harlan M. is a sex expert. For all the latest information about mastering the small differences that make all the difference during sex such as the sex positions guide, visit http://www.completeorgasmguide.com.
