The best and most intense orgasms come from simultaneous clitoral and G Spot stimulation.
Now, I know there’s been a lot of waffle in the Press recently about how the G Spot doesn’t exist. Either written by a man… or by a woman who hasn’t experienced the stunning effects of having pressure applied to this spongy spot found 2-2.5 inches inside her vagina.
You see, proper G Spot stimulation requires a sort of up and under rubbing digital motion that will cause friction in a place that can be quite elusive. Anatomical differences suggest that it may be in different places on different women… which is why some people say that it doesn’t exist. Some couples may need to engage in a great deal of experimentation to ascertain exactly where their particular G Spot resides.
My own lover discovered the secret to making me gush only recently. And the more he practises, the more squirty it gets.
Start off with the woman on her knees. It’s better if she’s upright because then you get the full effect of the liquid due to gravity, rather than having it pool inside her as it can if she’s horizontal.
Make sure you get her excited first with lots of kissing and caressing. Stimulate the external area between her legs gently with your fingers. Tickling, teasing and stroking to get her motor running.
Then insert one or two fingers inside her (I’m reliably informed that the middle and ring finger get the best purchase) and locate the soft, spongy bit on the front wall of the vagina. Start rubbing it with a sort of ‘beckoning’ motion, waggling the top of your middle finger and third finger towards you and start to notice the effect it has.
Next bring the palm of that same hand into play. As you pull forward with your fingers, press your palm and the heel of your hand hard against her vulva. That’s the whole area around her clitoris. You may be able to spread the lips of her labia to get the base of your palm directly onto her clitoris, but it’s quite fiddly and not totally necessary. Just apply pressure and start rubbing backwards and forwards gently with that hand as you simultaneously push on the spongy bit with your fingers.
You should become conscious of all the membranes lubricating up as a result of this stimulating arousal. The gentle friction will encourage the blood to engorge the delicate tissues and you will feel the resulting heat and moisture beginning to fill your hand. The whole of the external area will become squishy and squelchy. You can hear the liquidity increasing as the excitement builds.
Now increase the pressure and the speed. Harder and faster so that your arm is a bit like a piston with the two fingers flapping in time on the end of it.
And then it’s just continual pressure and speed of rub. As if you’re chafing her girlie bits into action after being cold and immobile for a long time.
Which is when the torrent should start. Hold on tight to your lady with the other arm because, if she hasn’t experienced it before, it can be a bit of a shock. And it will take the wind out of her sails even if she does know what’s going to happen because its feels as if her whole body is melting.
Running down your fingers, wrist and arm to splat in a puddle on the bed between her legs.
And the more you do it, the squirtier it becomes, especially if the woman learns to bear down with her pubococcygeus muscle at the same time – as if she wants to pee.
Make time for a romantic interlude this weekend and indulge yourselves with something a bit different. Play ‘hunt the G Spot’…. because you’ll know when you’ve found it.
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Joanna Cake is a life blogger who writes about health, parenting, sexual relationships and intimacy. For help and advice on how to perfect your pelvic floor to get the optimum pleasure, visit: http://tightenmyvagina.blogspot.com
