Ask any woman who has had a squirting orgasm and she will tell you that it is the ULTIMATE release. For women, nothing matches the feeling of ejaculating during orgasm and the flood of pleasure that comes with it.
However many guys are not living up to their potential. Either they can’t master the techniques needed to give a woman a squirting orgasm and can’t give more than an occasional orgasm to their partner. Basically there are a few things wrong with most peoples squirting technique that prevents their partners from having orgasms. While there are plenty of others (In my books I have listed entire chapters!), the major ones consist of psychological, technique and foreplay problems.
Barriers to Squirting Orgasms
There is an unfortunate tendency for guys to get a little carried away at the start when they try to give her a squirting orgasm. Lets be honest here, most of us are a little too eager and end up giving her too much stimulation too soon. Instead take your time and gently stroke the G-spot at first without moving your fingers, just making slow arm movements. As she gets used the this start to use the finger motion to increase her orgasm. Then only when you can feel her vagina expand should you start to use your arm and fingers to give her the orgasm.
Psychologically Preventing Orgasm
The psychological aspects usually refer to you making sure that she understands the process. There are lots of ways to make sure that she is mentally in as sexual place as possible (This includes ‘fore-foreplay’ and setting a really sexual vibe). Generally speaking all techniques come down to making sure that she feels as sexual as possible and making sure she understands what will happen at every stage of the orgasm.
Squirting Orgasm Technique
The final thing that you will want to be aware of is your technique. The difference between good, bad and great comes down to your attitude as well as your movements. Going anywhere new sexually is always intimidating for her, so you need to understand every part of the process and gently guide her through with your voice tell her what is about to happen and you will increase her orgasms, provided that you tell her in a sexual way conveying your desire. A great way to make her feel that you know what you are doing is to relax and keep your movements confident and smooth.
While many people think that squirting orgasms are tough, in fact all kinds of orgasms are straight forward once you understand the process and make sure not to let simple things stand in your way. Master the basics and the orgasm becomes a lot more simple.
Harlan Mulroy is a sex expert. For more information about all the things mentioned in this article and the famous female multiple orgasm guide, visit http://www.completeorgasmguide.com.
