The attitude that people have towards squirting orgasms often leaves me completely baffled. In movies and magazines, female ejaculation always seems to be mentioned as some kind of freak show or, even more bizarrely, brought out in pornography as some kind of testament to how awesome the star’s orgasm technique is. The truth is very different. Squirting orgasms are something that every couple should add to their bedroom experimentation.
The Squirting Orgasm
Firstly let’s set a few things straight: female ejaculation orgasms are real and the majority of women can have them. Amazingly that is quite a statement and many people ruin their chances of ever having one of these orgasms as they don’t believe that they are even possible. While some women will need a little more preparation than others, all women are capable of female ejaculation.
So Why Do So Few Women Ever Have a Female Ejaculation Orgasm?
The reason so few women have these orgasms is due to many factors, the first being that guys often don’t know what they should be doing.
When guys are enjoying great sex it is easy to rush into things and try to do too much at once. People shouldn’t rush into things. Make sure that there is lots of foreplay and even fore-foreplay! This means doing whatever she is into: candles, erotic massage, mutual masturbation etc. Ideally you want her to either orgasm or have almost orgasmed by the time you start trying to make her ejaculate. Trust me, it is much easier for her to orgasm if she has already had one.
The G-spot Female Ejaculation Technique
Probably the easiest kind of squirting orgasm for beginners is the G-spot ejaculation orgasm. This means locating her G-spot and gently stroking (The G-spot is on the ‘roof’ of the vagina after penetration. This motion is called the ‘come hither motion’ as it resembles the hand motion that you would use to beckon someone to come closer. As you stroke her, listen to the noise that her vagina makes. If you are doing this technique correctly, she should sound wetter with each hand motion. That is a good sign that you are doing it correctly.
Once you have done this you are well on your way to making her squirt. There is no better way for couples to enjoy themselves than by taking her an experience she has never had before sexually. It is also very good for men too as they can personalize the sexual experience specially for her, which leads to more intimacy.
The only thing left to do is get practicing and remember to keep having fun.
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