This generation owes a lot to Alfred Kinsey. In the conservative fifties and sixties, he spent a large portion of his life researching sex. LOTS of sex. As he watched couple after couple have orgasms in front of him, he recorded meticulous notes most of which can still be read today. Especially interesting are his notes about one of the female subjects, who regularly had four or more orgasms every session. Inspired by her example he investigated the prevalence of multiple orgasms in women. His results would be met with disbelief and shock. He proved that most women could have multiple orgasms at a time when men were stilling reeling from the discovery that women were orgasmic at all!
Alfred Kinsey changed the world. It’s only a shame that few people know who he is!
Multiple Orgasm 101
These days we know that his fellow scientists weren’t the ones who made the mistake: multiple orgasms are common and most women can easily have them. So why have so few women had multiple orgasms? The easiest answer is that guys think that multiple orgasms require some secret, magic technique. In fact the opposite is true: find whatever techniques you know work on your woman and do more of them. Instead the more important thing is knowing her body and her rhythms.
When you get into bed (Or wherever else you like to have sex!) take your time building up to the first orgasm. I usually start with a clitoris orgasm as it makes her wetter for the subsequent G-spot orgasm (Going for G-spot stimulation too quickly can be painful if she isn’t turned on enough). The G-spot orgasm is also more intense than the clitoris orgasm, so increases the feeling of the sex ‘building up’ to something.
Even if she is really wet, it is really important to use lots of lubrication for the female multiple orgasm, as your hands can hurt her clitoris if they are too dry. Once the clitoris starts to hurt, it will take a lot to make her orgasm again.
Right after you give her the first orgasm. Her body enters a period where it can be too sensitive to touch. Leave her alone here and let her just enjoy the feeling, it is very easy to rush her and ruin everything that you have built up. Instead just kiss her body gently, until you notice that she starts to get more passionate. You’ll be amazed at how quickly she starts to return the kisses! Letting you know that you can start again. You also won’t have to start entirely from the beginning as each orgasm makes the next one significantly easier.
Multiple Orgasms Tonight
The best thing about the female multiple orgasm is that you can keep her constantly guessing by mixing the techniques. This will stop you sex life from ever getting stale! Using different positions for oral sex, mutual masturbation and penetration orgasms will give her a number of different orgasms and give you an almost infinite variety of positions.
Once you understand multiple orgasms, the next step is what is known as the ‘magic three orgasm’. This one consists of starting with a clitoris orgasm, then building up to a G-spot orgasm, before finishing with a squirting orgasm. The orgasmic combination of these three techniques should be enough to keep her satisfied for months afterward!
Harlan Mulroy is a sex expert. For all the latest information about improving your sex life and the ‘how to: multiple orgasms‘ guide, visit http://www.completeorgasmguide.com.
