If you have recently mastered the squirting orgasm, you may be wondering if there could possibly be anything else out there to master. In fact there is more… a lot more. Once you have can regularly give her a squirting orgasm, it is time to give her a bigger orgasm: the gushing orgasm. What’s the difference between the two? It is the difference between a small raincloud and a tropical monsoon!
How to Master the Female Gushing Orgasm
In my experience every woman can have a female gushing orgasm, but it can take a different amount of preparation beforehand. The most important thing for her to master is the Kegel exercise. A Kegel exercise is performed by squeezing the pelvic floor muscles as if you were trying to stop peeing. Ideally she should be able to perform 20 of these. When she comes to orgasm she will need to push outwards using the pelvic floor muscles to help her ejaculate, this is especially important for this orgasm, as the more she pushes the more she will ejaculate.
This motion can sometimes be intimidating for women as they can make the mistake that it is urine that is being ejaculated (Don’t worry it’s not!). You will have to do a bit of framing beforehand so that she understands that it is part of the orgasmic process and lets herself go. Once she understands the process, she will find repeating the process easier each time.
The Gushing Orgasm Technique
You can give her a female gushing orgasm by either clitoral or G-spot stimulation (Or the two together if you feel really fancy!). The easiest erogenous zone to stimulate is the G-spot. Once you have learned this technique it is easy to use the same method to give her a clitoral gushing orgasm.
For the gushing orgasm, atmosphere is very important: it needs to relax her and make her feel sexual. She will also need some extra energy and water to really gush, so it is a good idea to give her some chocolate and water beforehand (For extra fun, think of a sexy way to introduce these foods into your foreplay!).
First turn her on by using plenty of sensuous touching. You will know that you are doing it correctly when you penetrate her with your fingers and she feels engorged inside. If you glide your fingers along the roof of her vagina you should feel an area that is a little rougher in texture than the area around it this area is the G-spot. Using your middle and ring fingers to caress the G-spot and the index and pinkie on her vulva as a brace, you can bring her into the orgasm by increasing the speed gradually. The motion that you use is often called the ‘come here motion’ because it looks similar to the same motion you would use to beckon someone towards you.
As you begin to feel her about to orgasm, you should increase the amount of touching that you give this sensitive area. This could take quite a lot of stroking, so you really cannot use too much lubricant at this stage.
At first your motions should be soft and gentle. As she gets more and more excited, your movements should get faster. As she starts to orgasm, you can help her to orgasm by adding some muscular flexes of your bicep. At this time she will likely feel like she is going to pee. This is why it is important that you explained what will happen correctly beforehand. If she pushes outwards with her pelvic muscles a clear liquid should squirt out and she will feel a strong orgasm. The first couple of times, it may only be a trickle, but once she gets the hang of relaxing and your understand how to use your hand and arm together you will soon need towels under her… LOTS of towels.
Harlan Malfoy is an expert on sex. For all the latest information about improving your sex life and the ‘Cunnilingus: How to‘ guide, click http://www.completeorgasmguide.com.
