Blame generations of text books or blame pornography, but generation of men have been raised with a completely unrealistic image of what their partner’s naked body should actually look like. Raised on years of computer-modified images of nude women and completely inaccurate scientific texts, men have a lot of difficulty giving their women certain kinds of orgasms (Especially squirting orgasms) as they don’t know what they should be doing. This is a guide for those men to help them understand everything that they can do to know your way around her body and give her squirting orgasms.
The Squirting Guide
For squirting orgasms there are two basic types: squirting G-spot orgasms and squirting clitoris orgasms. As a general rule the G-spot orgasms are easier to give as the erogenous area is larger and you are more easily able to calibrate your motions as you can feel her muscular contractions. For many women one or more of these erogenous zones will be easier to stimulate, this is why you should try both of them out.
A problem that a lot of guys have is that the clitoris and G-spot are not always the clear pieces of flesh that they see in pornography or educational material. In fact her clitoris and G-spot can be quite different. For some women this means that they can have orgasms more easily; others less easily. By knowing about her body, you can guarantee that she has a squirting orgasm regardless of her genital shape.
Physical Differences Between Women
The major difference between women is how much her clitoris is exposed. When we talk about ‘exposed’, this refers to how far out from under the hood the fleshy part that you stimulate is (The hood is the thin flap of skin over the top of the clitoris). A more exposed clitoris is a lot easier to stimulate and gives the woman a lot larger chance of orgasming and is a lot easier to give her a squirting orgasm. The only slight drawback is that you will need to use a lot of lube when you touch her as it is a lot more sensitive than the average woman’s clitoris.
On the other hand the hood may cover quite a large part of her clitoris. In this case you will have a higher chance of giving her an orgasm if you open her legs wider during sex to make the clitoris easier to stimulate. You may also want to switch to giving her a G-spot squirting orgasm if you really can’t get enough stimulation on the clitoris.
On the other hand some women may also not be able to have a G-spot orgasm as their body tenses up too much when your fingers go in. For these women, you may have to use more lube to really give her an intense squirting orgasm. If this still doesn’t work then progressing her body using sex toys will help to move her slowly into penetration. Alternatively you could give her a clitoris squirting orgasm instead.
How to Make Her Squirt
Once you understand her body, it becomes really easy to give her a squirting orgasm. The best thing is that once you really understand her body, you can be the first guy to really ‘get’ her. At this point not only do you have the physical side of sex covered, but it also helps with the mental side and that is one of the steps to having AMAZING sex.
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