Cunnilingus is a light subject with men and women. A lot of women are embarrassed of the odor issue and other issues that men seem to raise about the subject, thus making it delicate. If you are going to try it, there are a few tips and guidelines you can use to make your experience and hers the best one! Here is how to do cunnilingus and make her orgasm…
The facts- some guys are down for it, others are not; but if you are skeptical, its always made easier when she has just freshly washed her vagina. So you don’t offend her, you can try having a sexy shower together with her, as a sneaky way to get her clean without outright asking her to wash that area.
Flavored lubricants and dental dams can be used to flavor things up with a different taste for you. But you should make her wet when you begin. For positions, it is not a bad idea to use some pillows underneath her or to try some different positions once you get better. However most people start simply by having her lay on her back, opening her legs and then crouching downwards between her legs, with your face towards her vagina.
Begin to lick her clitoris. You should take note that this is the main area you want to be stimulating. Her clitoris is very sensitive and you can tell when you are going to hard if she pushes away from you or moves your head off. You can also flick your tongue on her clitoris and change up the pace to suit her needs. Anything from sucking, licking, flicking, kissing, rubbing your lips over etc will work; so long as it is creating a feeling there.
A lot of women actually like their clitoral hood to be licked, which is the fold of skin that covers the glans of the clitoris. It is a highly sensitive area, and is often what women themselves use and stimulate during self masturbation.
When it comes to the strength and speed, a lot of women prefer firm strokes in a repetitive motion; however you can always ask her for feedback when you are doing it so that you aren’t left entirely in the cold.
A neat trick you can try, when you get better at cunnilingus, is to take a swig of champagne into your mouth (do not swallow it) and then move your mouth over her clitoris and make a suction… you can then swig this around on her clitoris, and the bubbles will be invigoratingly stimulating for her alongside your tongue swishing on her sensitive spot.
One of the things about a woman’s hood, is that when a female is about to orgasm from her clitoris, you will often feel as if it has disappeared and gone back inside her body. This is something that you should not worry about, and it is a sign that she is about to orgasm; when you notice this, do not go any harder, but rather continue at the same pace. Going harder may cause a sudden jolt of discomfort throwing her off; which of course then causes you to take longer; so always watch for signs.
